Is obligation sex intimacy?  We pull back the veil on the often misunderstood topic of sexual intimacy within the Christian marriage, dissecting the unhealthy stigmas often associated with this divine expression of love. We candidly discuss the detriments of the twisted metaphor of sexual responsibility embedded in religious communities and guide you on how to steer clear of the harmful messages about sex within the church and purity culture.

We also shed light on the pressures and expectations synonymous with marital intimacy, offering a fresh perspective on how to set healthy boundaries in your relationship. Through our conversation, we emphasize the importance of seeking mentorship or counseling to navigate challenging conversations and dismantle harmful language that promotes unrealistic expectations of sex in marriage. We highlight the significance of self-care and maintaining a healthy relationship with God and how to approach difficult conversations constructively. So take a breather with us, whether you’re newlyweds or celebrating decades of love, and let’s continue our journey of ‘Still Becoming One’ together.