Hello,

Meet Paul Byerly

Since early adulthood, Paul wanted to be married and to have a great marriage. He and Lori had a lot going for them, but both has sexual wounds that made their marriage bed a place of difficulty. Unable to find much help from the church in the late ‘80s, they worked though things with their Bibles, prayer, and plenty of crying. When things got better, Paul and Lori looked for ways to help others with the same struggles they had experienced. 

This means they deal with sexuality, but more than that they want to see every couple have an amazing marriage. Paul’s thirty years of helping marriages includes the website The Marriage Bed, blogs for men (The Generous Husband) and women (The XY Code- Decoding the Male Mind), and conferences for couples and men’s groups. Paul offers coaching for men, women, or couples looking to improve their marriages. He also offers biblically sound help for sexual wounding or practical how-to, including dealing with challenges due to physical conditions.

Paul is an ordained minister and says, “I want to see what God is doing, and do that. I’m serious about Jesus, and about what the Bible says.”

Types of Coaching I provide.

Marriage Coaching

Paul is deeply passionate about helping couples achieve thriving, fulfilling marriages—not just settling for “okay.” Disappointed by today’s standards of what defines a “good” marriage, Paul is dedicated to showing couples that more is possible. With years of experience, he empowers couples to strengthen their connection, communication, and intimacy. Paul offers wisdom, compassion, and hope, guiding you toward a more meaningful and joyful relationship as you grow together.

Men's Individual Coaching

Sometimes, men need a mentor who has walked the path before them to help navigate life’s challenges. Paul can help you decode your relationships, grow toward healthy intimacy, and unravel past hurts and wounds as you work to grow into a healthier future.

Paul also offers 2 on 2 coaching with his wife Lori

Paul's Pricing

Sessions with Paul are regularly $90 per 50 minute session. 

Affordable Support through Our Sliding Scale Pricing
At The Aldrich Ministries Coaching Network, we believe that financial circumstances should not be a barrier to receiving the support you need. To make our sessions more accessible, we offer a sliding scale pricing option for those who qualify. If you’re facing financial challenges, you are welcome to apply for this option during your intake process. We’re committed to working with you to find a plan that fits your situation.

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