Discover the hidden challenges young married couples face today with our special guest, pastor Lindsay Lautsbaugh, who brings her wealth of experience from pastoring, missions, and motherhood. Lindsay opens up about sensitive topics like pornography, communication issues, and th

We are thrilled to bring you a compelling conversation with our special guest, Jay Stringer. As a renowned therapist, minister, researcher, and author, Jay offers an enlightening perspective on the profound connections between sexuality and healing. We deep-dive into his book “Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Path to Healing” and discuss how sexuality is more than just a physical experience; it’s an intricate weave of our journey towards connectivity.

Prepare to rethink your understanding of pleasure as we bust the misconceptions surrounding it, particularly in a Christian household. Jay helps us navigate through the dynamics of low sexual desire in relationships and why it’s crucial to acknowledge and respect mismatched desires. We uncover the potential repercussions that contempt and blame can have when these differences aren’t recognized. It’s not just about sex; mismatched desire can extend into other aspects of life as well.

In the final section of our discussion, we delve into the complexities behind low desire in relationships, acknowledging the impact of societal pressures and the need to honor the stories behind them. Jay shares his insights on the role of pornography in relationships and how to navigate conflict using differentiation and individuation. Throughout this thought-provoking journey, we underline the privilege of bearing witness to these narratives and emphasize the transformative power of connection and empathy. Sit back, open your hearts, and join us on this enlightening journey.

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